Friday, February 28, 2014

What I know trumps how I feel....

"What I know trumps how I feel". Our former pastor at our church was known to say this quite often. It kind of has become a theme of many people in our church. And I'm reminding myself of this through this process.

What I feel: I struggle off and on with fear of the unknown, fear of what the future could hold, fear of losing friends, family and money.
What I know: I must try very hard not to make decisions based on fear!

Deuteronomy 31:6   Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you

 Psalm 27:1   The LORD is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The LORD is the strength of my life; Of whom shall I be afraid?

 Isaiah 41:10  So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand

 1 Peter 3:13-14   Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. "Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened.

Romans 8:15  For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!”

 

What I feel: need for comfort, my space, my time. Sometimes just being selfish and wanting to just take care of me.

What I know: Life's not about me.

 

Philippians 2:1-4   If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others

Romans 15:1-2   We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up

 
1 Corinthians 13:4-6   Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

 

And most of all, when I'm feeling stress about the adoption, struggling with worry about how this is going to affect our lives, just kind of wigging out a bit. I remind myself of these things I do feel in my heart, but I also know.


James 1:2   Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.


John 14:18  I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.


Psalm 68:5-6   Father to the fatherless, defender of widows- this is God, whose dwelling is holy. God places the lonely in families; he sets the prisoners free and gives them joy. But he makes the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land.


Matthew 18:5   And anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me.

 Psalm 82:3  Defend the weak and the fatherless; uphold the cause of the poor and the oppressed

Matthew 25:40  The King will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me".